Friday, September 2, 2022

TAKING A SERIOUS LOOK AT FORGIVENESS







What is forgiveness? Forgiveness is defined as acquittal or pardon of sins. When the courts acquit a felon, he is no longer held responsible for his crime; he walks away free from all charges and consequences. In the same way, when God forgives our sin, He no longer holds it against us; He treats us like we never sinned! Awesome!

Have you ever been seriously offended by another person, like family, friends, neighbors, or strangers? How did you respond? Even if they apologized, you probably thought to yourself, “I can never forgive,” or “I’ll forgive but can never forget!”

In Jesus’ parable of the unforgiving debtor (Matthew 18:23-27), He compared the Kingdom of Heaven to a king who was updating his accounts with servants who had borrowed from him. One of the servants owed him a huge amount but could not pay. When the king announced his verdict, the servant begged for a time extension, promising to pay back all he owed. The king responded not by extending time but by forgiving the whole debt.

Can you look back and name individuals who owe you a debt? Have you half-heartedly or completely forgiven them? Is your relationship with them restored, or do you try to avoid contact with them?

The circumstances for the forgiven servant changed rather quickly; he failed to forgive another servant who owed him much less than he owed the king. When the king found out, he was thrown into jail, to stay there until his debt was fully paid. Ouch!

At the end of the chapter, Jesus warned, “That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse to forgive your brothers and sisters from your heart.” As followers of Christ, we should take this seriously because Jesus was talking to the disciples - and that is exactly what we are.

In the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13), we ask in verse 12 to be forgiven as we forgive others. Do we mean half-heartedly or completely? How would we fare if God forgave us half-heartedly? At the end of that passage, in verse 14, Jesus said, “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

Can we really afford not to be forgiven by God? The answer should be “No” for each child of God! What would the implication be for not being forgiven? Hell? May God forbid!

Lord, please help us to be obedient to your Word and love each other as you have loved us. You forgave our sins and chose to remove them from us as far as the east is from the west. We’ve escaped hell because you’ve lovingly forgiven us, and shouldn’t we forgive others? Help us, Lord, to follow your example and do the same with those who hurt us; help us to let go of all hurt and replace hurt with love. Thank you in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen

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