Showing posts with label spiritual growth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spiritual growth. Show all posts

Monday, January 18, 2016

Moses and the Red Sea


You know our significant other/s always test us when they realize we are at a new level of spiritual growth. When we are at a new level of emancipation. Of self-sovereignty. They are always the first to know. And they become frightened. And they try to get us to fall back into the old enmeshed patterns. But their test is really confirmation of our liberation and movement toward wholeness. Their fear is that our growth is a reminder that they too can choose theirs.  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Growth always involves fear. Most of my counseling clients realize they need to face their own personal fears in order to heal wounds, critique beliefs, and step out in faith. What catches them by surprise is the response of spouses, family, friends, church, etc. Instead of support and encouragement, clients often receive fear-based condemnation. MLK, Jr. understood this human response to change, using it as positive affirmation rather than personal defeatism.

Sanctification is the process of seeing ourselves and others through God’s eyes. This viewpoint provides freedom from an oppressive, restrictive, fear-based human lifestyle. Stepping out in confidence and faith can scare the pants off those around us. Reminds me of Moses at the Red Sea.

The Bible gives us a little information about Moses’ fears and wounds. Each time God told him to talk to Pharaoh was an individual growth opportunity to press into those fears. His confidence in himself and God grew so when he called the Israelites to follow him out of Egypt, they packed up and hit the road. When they got to the Red Sea, God called Moses to symbolically show his growth to the people by stepping out in faith. Everyone around him was freaking out, begging Moses to go back to Egypt and make peace. As Moses courageously stepped into the Red Sea, God spoke to the heart of every Israelite, calling them to grow in faith as well.

Your growth can both inspire and terrify those around you. Ask God to open the eyes of your heart so you can continue to step out in faith. Your godly model provides an opportunity for God to speak to onlookers about their own growth.
Judy Lair, LPCC

Photo courtesy of www.neverthirsty.org


Monday, January 4, 2016

Stepping into Biblical Shoes


            I find it super encouraging to read biblical accounts of folks who are as flawed as me. Women, men, siblings, parents, children, religious leaders, bosses—the Bible gives us relational models which speak to our lives. Today I’m focusing on 1 Samuel 1.
            Elikanah the Ephraimite was a devote man with two wives, Peninnah and Hannah. Every year he traveled to the tabernacle at Shiloh to offer sacrifices to the Lord and ask God’s blessing upon his family. During the festival, he gave generous portions of meat to Peninnah and her children, but he always gave a double portion to Hannah “because he loved her, and the Lord had closed her womb.”
            Peninnah knew Hannah was the favorite and intentionally provoked her, bringing Hannah to tears. The insults were especially hard to endure when they went up to the house of the Lord. Hannah wept so hard she couldn’t eat. Worried, Hannah’s husband begged her to focus on his love rather than her despair over being childless.
            One day enough was enough. Hannah’s bitterness consumed her heart and mind. Standing outside the tabernacle, she negotiated with God.

‘O Lord Almighty, if you will only look upon your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life, and no razor will ever be used on his head.’ (1 Sam 1:11)

            A priest named Eli watched this woman for a while. She stood transfixed, eyes closed, mouth moving but no sound coming out. Apparently this was very peculiar behavior because he concluded she was drunk and told her to sober up! When Hannah explained she was praying to God out of deep anguish and grief, Eli blessed her and asked God to grant her petition. Receiving comfort and hope, Hannah’s spirit was renewed. “In the course of time,” the Lord “remembered” Hannah’s prayer and she gave birth to a son she named Samuel saying, “Because I asked the Lord for him.”
            Once Samuel was weaned, the family once again made a trip to Shiloh to sacrifice. With Elikanah’s blessing, Hannah kept her vow and presented her beloved son to Eli as a dedication to God. 1 Samuel 2 chronicles Hannah’s prayer as she handed her son to the Lord.

My heart rejoices in the Lord; in the Lord my horn is lifted high. My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance…The Lord brings death and makes alive; he bring down to the grave and raises up. The Lord sends poverty and wealth, he humbles and he exalts. He raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap…It is not by strength that one prevails; those who oppose the Lord will be shattered. 1 Sam 2:1-10

            Sit in the shoes of each of these folks and you will experience their strengths and weaknesses. Despite being a man of faith, Elikanah showed favor to one wife over the other. Hurt and angry with her husband, Peninnah responded by scapegoating Hannah, knowing exactly what buttons to cruelly push. Bitterness grew in Hannah’s heart, eventually pushing her to bargain with God. Eli made inaccurate, incorrect assumptions rather than relationally moving towards Hannah to find out what she needed.
Do you find yourself in these flawed folks? The good news is God offered each person an opportunity to grow and mature. I like to hope Elikanah took ownership of his part in the marital issues and intentionally worked on his relationship with Peninnah. Hopefully her heart and attitude softened toward Hannah, promoting peace and harmony at home. We see how Eli allowed God to speak to his heart about making hasty judgments. Doing so resulted in compassion for Hannah’s sorrow and his words brought comfort and hope back to her soul.
Personally, I’m highly inspired and encouraged by Hannah’s transformation, as evidenced in her prayer in 1 Samuel 2. Like many folks, she lived with constant disappointment and hardship. As a Christian counselor, I don’t have a “why” answer. Why did God close Hannah’s womb? Why did he allow Peninnah to be so hurtful? Why doesn’t God step in and miraculously heal and protect those I love? Enduring these questions everyday can eventually wear folks down, bringing resentment and bitterness.
Many of us try to bargain with God and if that doesn’t seem to get results, we close ourselves off relationally and become cynical or stoic. Using human logic, Hannah had every reason to feel abandoned by God and renig on her “foxhole” vow. Yet her powerful prayer shows a heart of gratitude and thankfulness. Hannah confidently testifies to God’s heart of love for her, her son, and her people. She still lives in a fallen world, but she now knows in her soul how God is always with and for her no matter the circumstances. Looking at life through God’s heart gives us everything we need to persevere in faith and hope.
I was very blessed to visit Shiloh several years ago. The photo above is taken in the cave identified as the home of Eli and Samuel. Standing at the site of the original Tabernacle, I felt God’s manifest presence. I challenge you to adopt a relational view of reading the Bible. Put yourself in the shoes of all the flawed folks. Connect with their weaknesses and immature behaviors. Bring all your “why” questions directly to God. Allow these accounts to be a catalyst for growth in your own life.


Judy Lair, LPCC

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

The Times They Are A-Changin'


 
Come gather ’round people
Wherever you roam
And admit that the waters
Around you have grown
And accept it that soon
You’ll be drenched to the bone
If your time to you is worth savin’
Then you better start swimmin’ or you’ll sink like a stone
For the times they are a-changin’
 
I grew up hearing Bob Dylan on the radio, a folk singer and eclectic songwriter whose insightful words and influential music in many ways defined a generation. The generation he spoke to experienced a dramatic and historical shift in the status quo.  The ‘60’s was a time of religious, political, and social turmoil. The culture-altering events that transformed America--and the world--during that decade produced long-lasting repercussions that are being felt even today, much like the ongoing aftershocks of a major earthquake.
 
 
           In many ways the Church is in the process of undergoing an equally radical transformation, one that will impact every aspect of our lives in the years and decades to come, should Christ tarry.  The words from Dylan’s song The Times They are A-Changin’ are as prophetic today for the Body of Christ as they were for the secular culture of the ‘60’s.
 
         We are living in the most profound time since Jesus walked among men and proclaimed that He is the Son of God. Even though Scripture tells us that no man knows the day or the hour of Christ’s return, we are expected to be aware of the season, and we’ve been given signposts to alert us to its imminence. Those of us who comprise the Body of Christ are also being drawn closer to our Heavenly Father than we have ever been.  Because of His passionate desire for intimacy with us, He is making Himself available to us in extraordinary and unique ways, just as He did when His Son first came and walked among us.  Yet, many in the Body resist the current move of Holy Spirit, because it doesn’t fit into their religious concept of who God is and how He demonstrates Himself among the people.
 
 The result is that much of the Church, especially in the West, is asleep. The challenge that faces us is whether or not we’re going to wake up from our slumber and “start swimmin’” or “sink like a stone” in the River of Life He is pouring out through and upon us.

 
            What do I mean by that?
 
            A wise mentor once remarked that “Many in the Body of Christ today continually seek God’s hand.  Few truly seek His face.”  Many pastors have become so “seeker-friendly” they now preach “another gospel,” one in which sin has no place, where the fear of the Lord is absent, and where it’s more important to be socially and politically correct than to be salt and light to a dying world.
 
Those who sit by and embrace a watered-down gospel risk much.
 
We know from Scripture that the pathway of righteousness is a narrow road, one that can only be walked upon by daily taking up our own personal cross and allowing Holy Spirit to increase in us so that we might decrease.  We are called to “die daily” to those things which distract us from an intimate relationship with Christ, and to encourage one another in the Faith. We are also called to spiritually separate ourselves from the world. This is sanctification. The process of being set apart spiritually from the world, first by salvation, then by “working out our salvation with fear and trembling”, and finally being fully transformed into His likeness and glory, separated from sin for all eternity.  Yet, sadly, many resist this process, choosing instead to pick and choose those aspects of Christianity that appeal to their soul, rejecting anything their soul does not delight in, as if their Faith was a buffet.
 
 It’s never easy choosing the road less traveled, especially when that choice brings you into continual conflict with most everyone around you. Thankfully, we not only have someone to look to who successfully walked that road, but also someone who, because of His success, gained the legal right to be our advocate on a daily basis.
 
 
Come mothers and fathers
Throughout the land
And don’t criticize
What you can’t understand
Your sons and your daughters
Are beyond your command
Your old road is rapidly agin’
Please get out of the new one if you can’t lend your hand
For the times they are a-changin’
 
  There is a generation arising who are not satisfied with the status quo.  They look at the hypocrisy they see within the Body and want no part of it.  They look at the lack of power and true spiritual authority and dare to ask “Why is it absent when it’s promised to us?” They hunger for Truth and Righteousness and will pay any price to have it.  These are the spiritual “rabble rousers” of our day.  They are the ones, like Jan Huss, John Wycliff, Martin Luther, John Calvin, and others, who will bring about a Reformation in the Church.  They are the ones willing to take on the religious spirit that has deafened, and blinded, and caused much of the Church to fall into a deep slumber.  They are not afraid to call it for what it is and do whatever Holy Spirit guides them to do to defeat it, regardless of the consequences.
 
 
Look around you this coming Sunday in church.  Can you identify the “rabble rousers?”  Can you identify those who want more than the “same old same old” every Sunday?  Are you one of them?  If not, why?  Are you content with the status quo, or do you long for something more.  I challenge you to take a realistic, truthful look at yourself.  Do you have the kind of Faith that inspires others to greatness in Christ?  Do you walk the kind of walk that causes the lost to say, “I don’t know what you have, but I want it--”?  Do you most often seek God’s hand, or His face?  Are you prepared to risk whatever your soul finds desirable in order to follow Christ?