Friday, October 22, 2021

ALLOW THE FAMILY TO HELP YOU




Are you a child of God? If you answer ‘yes,’ then you belong to the family of God. You have brothers and sisters in the family, and together you form the church, the body of Christ. As children of God, our experiences and struggles are similar because we have the same enemy-the devil.

He is after us, and his goal is to cause us to disobey God at any cost. That has been his scheme from the beginning. In the Garden of Eden, he contradicted God’s commandment, which led to Adam and Eve eating the forbidden fruit, and the devil has not stopped messing with us. For this reason, the Bible admonishes us, the children of God, to be watchful: “Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8).

It will help us to take the Bible’s description of the devil seriously, so we do not fall prey to him and his schemes. So, how does the Bible describe him? He is referred to as our great enemy (see 1 Peter 5:8), and called the deceiver, liar, murderer, and destroyer: “You are children of your father the devil, and you love to do the evil things he does. He was a murderer from the beginning. He has always hated the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, it is consistent with his character; for he is a liar and the father of lies” (John 8:44; also see John 10:10). If you knew you had an enemy who was all of these things and was actually trying to trip you up, how would you live? Most likely, you would be afraid, concerned, worried, and vigilant. You might also try to stay out of his way as much as possible, and if all else failed, you might go to the authorities to bring a charge against him or seek protection. 

The Bible tells us what our enemy is like, not so that we’ll be afraid or worried, but instead so that we’ll be careful and take cover to stay safe. How do we take cover? By constantly praying, avoiding places and situations where we might be vulnerable. This also means we need to spend quality time with the family, share our struggles and victories, and pray for each other. After all, the enemy is after all of us.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of people saying “I’m okay” even when they’re not. The reasons could vary but do not justify the false statement.  The reasons could include:

      “I don’t have enough time to share.”

      “I don’t think you’ll understand.”

      “It’s personal-it’s embarrassing.”

      “I don’t want anyone to know I have problems; that might change my reputation.”

      “I should be able to handle this on my own.”

      “People might start to gossip about me.”

The truth is, the Bible teaches us to “Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed” (James 5:16). If we’re not honest, people won’t know how to help us. When we share, we all learn from each other’s experiences, mistakes, and victories. As a result, we will grow stronger individually, and also as the church. The church will gain a better image in society, and the Lord’s name will be honored. Please, let’s be honest with each other. There’s no need to carry our burdens alone; a load becomes lighter and more bearable when more shoulders are underneath it.

Also, let’s learn to cut each other some slack so people are not intimidated to share and ask for help. “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, …” (Ephesians 4:2-4).

So, let us prayerfully and humbly share our needs and trials with each other; let’s not allow pride and fear to stop us from being what God wants each of us to be in the Body of Christ. God will honor our efforts and obedience!    

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