The strength of simple gratitude is an incredible feeling.
“Enter his
gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise;
One of the things I like
about technology is being able to stay connected with others. While I sometimes
groan about our fast-paced world, I love keeping up with like-minded
individuals through Facebook. On November 1, I noticed a 40-Day “thanks”-giving
challenge. Each day in November, people began to post those things and people
for which they are grateful. I joined the challenge and began posting daily.
During November, we
celebrate a national day of thanksgiving, always the last Thursday of the
month. This American holiday is a time to remember and give thanks for all of
our blessings. For many, however, it’s the only day of the year they feel led
to express their gratitude.
Did you know that one of humanity’s most powerful positive emotions is gratitude?
Several years ago, psychologists started studying the science of giving thanks.
What they discovered might surprise you. When you count your blessings, it makes
you happier, even during difficult times.
Psychology
professor Michael McCullough has studied people who were asked to be thankful
on a regular basis. “When you stop to count your blessings, you are sort of
hijacking your emotional system.”
Research
by McCullough and others has revealed that giving thanks is a powerful emotion,
feeding on itself. McCullough says, “Psychologists used to underestimate the
strength of simple gratitude. It does make people happier. It’s an incredible
feeling.”
Another
psychologist, Maryann Troiana, has her clients keep a gratitude journal. By
listing daily what they are thankful for, it changes their attitude and outlook
on life.
Agreeing, psychology professor Robert Emmons says, “It is important to
focus more on the people for whom you are grateful. By concentrating on what
life would be like without the good things, especially people like our spouses,
you begin to realize just how grateful you are.”
Grateful
people “feel more alert, alive, interested and enthusiastic,” Emmons says. “They
also feel more connected to others.” Emmons, who has written two books on the
science of gratitude, often studies the effects of using a gratitude journal.
In 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, Paul writes, “Be cheerful no matter
what; pray all the time; thank God no matter what happens. This is the way God
wants you who belong to Christ Jesus to live.”
Thank God no matter what happens?
Thank
God no matter what happens? Surely, Paul was joking. What if we lived each day
in gratitude for what we do have? What if we recalled the ways He has taken
care of us in the past? Instead of complaining about those things we lack, what
if we began to take an inventory of our simple treasures and conveniences like
- family
- friends
- food
- shelter
- electricity
- a vehicle
- our health
While
we can be blindsided by life’s unexpected burdens, we can choose to give thanks
in all circumstances. Each day should be a day of thanksgiving to God
and a lifestyle among God's people.
What are you thankful for today?
Please feel free to share your gratitude list below. Also, check out my blog and books at www.carolaround.com for more inspiration.
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